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5 Self Care Ideas For Busy Moms

When I gave birth to my daughter it was a very special moment to me and to my better half. We were very happy and blessed to have a little angel in our life. As days passed by I started realizing it’s not so easy to be a mom because my responsibility became more towards my family.

In this busy schedule getting time for yourself is very tough. So I started following a few basic self-care routines which really helped me to find myself back. Let’s get into some action and start our Self Care Routine.

Wake Up Before Your Kid.

Make a habit of getting up an hour early than your kid. It helps to save time to finish your morning chores. I know it is difficult to get up early but I promise it’s a matter of few days. Once you get used to it, you will start loving to get up early.

Cup of Coffee

The major advantage of getting up early is you have a peaceful and fresh environment in your home. Silently you can enjoy your morning cup of coffee, do yoga for 15- 20 minutes, make a plan for the rest of the day, cook breakfast, and wrap up with kitchen work. So once your kid gets up you can give your time to the little one. I swear once you finish with basic work we feel so happy and relaxed.

Pamper Your Self.

Once we become mothers we forget that there is a little girl deep down our heart. The girl who used to wear makeup, carry her self in a heel, wore different shades of lip color, dazzle her self with matched jewelry. Let’s not give any excuse and start to get ready for our self. Let’s pamper ourselves and see how happy you feel.

Hair spa

Pampering is not only applying makeup or getting ready. It can be a simple tub bath or hot shower where we can relax and rejuvenate our body and soul. Indulge in some DIY face mask for glowing skin or hair treatment to overcome post par tum pregnancy blues.

Hit to the beauty salon on weekends for a body massage or hair spa or any beauty treatment. Try to keep yourself young and beautiful. As I said don’t get ready for your partner or for others, get ready for yourself for your happiness.

Get Creative.

We usually face high level of stress due to lack of sleep, lot of work and doing multi tasking in home. Some ladies face ” Pregnancy Blues” or “Post par tum depression” these are mainly caused by hormonal imbalance and loss of vitamins.

Green tea and Books

The best way to keep our soul and mind happy is start reading a book , listen to music while doing house chores. Join a dance class for fun and workout, join some mum’s club where you find other mum of your age who share same thoughts. Give time for your self, if you are happy we can keep our family and house happy.

Rekindle Your Love.

There is no harm to do romantic with your partner, some time we need to ignite our relationship. Once a month have some night out or go for a movie or plan a date. Ask for your parents to come over and spend some time with their grandkid or hire a nanny for a day for you couples to take a break. Don’t get guilty for leaving your kid back, trust me they will be fine.


I remember my first time when I left my kid in home with my parents and went for shopping with my husband. I had to call thrice to cross check on her but later I got used to it. Even mom’s need a break, even we are human’s . So taking a break once a while is good for you and for your relationship.

Be Fit and Healthy.

Most important and crucial is to be fit and take a good care of health. During child birth we lose lot of blood which results in weakness and fatigue. Due to hormonal imbalance we under go lot of changes in our body, we tend to put on weight or have some sciatic nerve pains have loss of hair. To maintain proper health we have to do some basic workout.


Start with a brisk walk or jog for 20 minutes, join a zumba class, eat healthy food avoid junk foods, drink lots of water keep your self hydrated, incorporate some supplements ( Calcium/Iron/Vitamins) to get energy. Try to be fit and healthy so you can feel more confident and happy. There is no harm in doing exercise, it as it’s own benefits.

Follow these basic daily routine for self care and see how good you feel about it. Let your partner know about your routine so he can encourage you by giving your time and your personal space.



10 April 2020 at 8:43 pm

An important post.

As a parent, especially a mom, it is rather easy to forget ourselves caring for our children.

You shared some very important pointers. Making time for ourselves to pamper the girl within and making our health a priority are so important.

19 April 2020 at 1:50 pm

I am not a mother but I can so relate to the need to pamper myself. I badly need to get back to the mat. Quarantine is making me fat.

19 April 2020 at 1:58 pm

Self care is so important. If you don’t care for yourself how can you care for others.

19 April 2020 at 9:33 pm

these are all great tips to ensure some restful well appreciated times

19 April 2020 at 9:56 pm

Keeping your love strong with your partner is so important!

19 April 2020 at 10:23 pm

Valuable information for every mum…. These ideas are very beneficial…. Thanks for sharing them….

19 April 2020 at 11:28 pm

There has to be a balance between self care and care for your children and significant other. Good job for working on that!

20 April 2020 at 2:04 am

Such good reminders of the importance of self care to be the best mom possible! Great ideas and all so important!

20 April 2020 at 2:51 am

These are all great tips. As moms, we often neglect ourselves while trying to keep everyone else going. We need to keep ourselves well too!

20 April 2020 at 7:50 am

I love these tips. Most moms forget to take care of themselves. Pampering one’s self is really a must. Most especially, staying fit/healthy. Thanks for sharing this to us!

blair villanueva
20 April 2020 at 8:27 am

Pampering yourself is a must for all of the busy Moms. Having a warm bubble bath helps to boost your energy and relief stress.

Tia J McKinzie
20 April 2020 at 12:29 pm

considering i just had another baby i am always in need of some self care tips for mom! I think the whole getting up before baby thing will never work. I am stay up well after the kids go down!

20 April 2020 at 3:14 pm

Very good points here, I agree with you! I normally get up before the children and me and my husband take turns during the day so we can all get a little bit of quality me time squeezed in each day.

20 April 2020 at 3:54 pm

We all need this especially moms of course! This is a great read and very informative. This is the time for many of us to focus on this things while we are in quarantine.

Billy Sandoval
20 April 2020 at 5:22 pm

These are all great ideas. I love waking up early and doing all my household chores and after all my chores. I do my workout routine with my husband.

20 April 2020 at 10:06 pm

I am a dog mom. Despite of that I tend to forget to take care of myself. Need to focus on myself more

21 April 2020 at 1:41 am

This is a great post. I’ve noticed that a lot of these tips are consistent with things that they do to keep themselves sane lol.

23 April 2020 at 5:54 pm

Great tips. Self-care should be at the top of everyones list – new mom or not <3

28 April 2020 at 1:27 pm

I’m not a mom yet, but I know being a mom isn’t a easy job. So these are great advice!

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